Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I’ll meet you there.”― Rumi. The Right-Wrong game can be played with any number of people in any setting, and we are often unknowing participants. Once the game begins, it can be difficult to stop. The problem with the game is no one ever really wins. There are two leading players in the game. Those who always need to…
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‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it. ~Rumi With Valentine’s Day on the horizon, romance is at the forefront of many minds. Whether we find ourselves in a place feeling like it is now or never, or we aren’t looking but hoping it will just happen, we may lose sight of the signs…
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By Greta N, Anderson, Ph.D Experiencing major nerve damage in my right hand forced me to let go of my athletic ambitions, but I gained so much more… Throughout my lifetime, the one consistency that has been there from the very beginning was me identifying as an athlete. From being the fastest kid in the neighborhood to making my high school varsity tennis team before I ever attended a day…
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By: Odille Remmert It was the day before my son’s 12th birthday, and I had decided it would be best for everyone if I took my own life. I had spent my life struggling – financially, emotionally, and physically. Each time I hit “rock-bottom,” I would end up picking myself back up, dusting myself off, and believing that this time would be different; this time, I would succeed. And now,…
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As festive as the holiday season, it can be stressful for many. Amid the merriment, other emotions may be lurking. For those who have perfect relations with all of their family, I tip my hat to you. Mine was not always so. My biological father was a challenge for me. He epitomized the opposite of what a good father was. He drank to excess, was untrustworthy, and, at times, abusive.…
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Happiness is an internal choice not an external condition ~ Joshua Rappaport The topic: successful relationships have reigned at the top of search engines for decades. Everyone wants to know how to make them work. On the lookout for the je ne sais quoi, when we finally meet that ‘right’ person who has it all, we settle down and live happily ever after. Right? Wrong. Statistically, over 50% of marriages…
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Typically, I allow death to visit my older pets in its own time; the process is usually peaceful with a helping hand of patience. It takes a few days for the body to shut down, and during that time, I sit and be with my beloved friend. My cat, Cloudy’s case, is different. She has bone cancer, and it is eating her. I’ve had no experience with cancer, and I…
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It’s 2 AM, and I cannot sleep. Not too unusual for me. Reasons for my erratic sleep pattern include a sick cat, two Doberman Pinchers who prefer my bed to theirs, and having an open ear for my horses. However, there is another reason this morning; a wildfire is lurking. Those of us who weathered last year’s fire are feeling the stress of the what if’s a fire can bring.…
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Driving away from the Veterinarian yielded the exact results I knew in my heart: my beloved cat Cloudy had bone cancer in her jaw. At 20 yrs she has lived a whole and happy life, so hearing the news was bittersweet. All of us who have four-legged companions dread the day they will depart; some people refuse to endure the heartache of the loss again; I, on the other hand,…
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That she bear children is not a woman’s significance. But that she bear herself, that is her supreme and risky fate.” ~ D.H. Lawrence I was not the woman who went starry-eyed when I saw a baby. However, I always thought I would be a fantastic mother. My maternal and caretaking instincts were honed. The comment “You’ll be a great mom” was shared amongst friends, and in my mind,…
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